Jan 26, 2023
Shortly after Michelle and I finished recording today’s
interview, Michelle wrote back to me saying that she didn’t feel
like she shared much hope. She had wanted to be inspirational to
other bereaved parents when sharing her grief journey after losing
her two sons Xavier and Aidan in a tragic car accident but thought
that she had been anything but inspiring. In my opinion, Michelle
couldn’t be more wrong. Her life is the absolute definition of
hope.
What is hope? Hope is getting up out of bed every morning after you
have lost both of your children, and you just want to hide away
from the world. Hope is continuing to work with children as a
school nurse after your own children are gone. Hope is clinging to
your Christian faith while you are in the depths of despair. Hope
is opening your heart to have another child, even as you fear
losing him as well.
Michelle, your very life is hope and an example to all of us as to
how to live. Thank you for truly showing us what hope looks like in
the darkness of grief. Thank you for being so open and honest with
us in sharing your emotions. You are an inspiration.